Twin Flame Separation: the despair driving the two flames

What's love gotta do with it,gotta do with it! This infamous song by Tina Turner is the right connotation for a twin flame connection. A twin flame connection is not your regular Mills and Boon romance where boy meets girl with starry night surprises,rather it is a lot contrary to that. My experience of the twin flame journey has been nothing but a sheer roller coaster ride, full of ups and downs.According to Todd Savvas,"A twin flame is your own soul shared across what appears to be two physical beings. It is one's soul split into two bodies. Further on,imagine a crack in a wall and a beam of light trying to enter through it. It will create a magnetic spark!! The inkling feeling of doubting your own strength and power in this connection comes in waves.There are times when I am feeling on top of the moon and in my strongest nerve in all areas of my life and then, there are certain times when I am down in the dumps, living in apathy, having tremendous doubts of my twin flame journey and get into the chaser mode. It is Diwali time in India and we used to hang out for a lunch or dinner in better times..What I miss the most, to be honest, is the friendship that we two shared,it was wonderful.

The sheer despair and depression of being in separation makes one want to do all the chasing and just wanting to be in union in the 3D. Is it that simple? Not anywhere close to being simple.For the matrix twin flame,they will be constantly wondering and frustrated by the fact that they can’t seem to get you out of their mind, even though you are no longer in their life. The very fact that you are no longer in their life will seem to highlight this,frustrating them more. You of course can do nothing to help them,just let them be.

Feeling indifferent towards your twin flame is quite difficult. If you have been apart for long enough, you can reach a point where you have resolved your feelings,accepting the fact you may never see each other again and living with it as a given. It’s never over, though,and at the back of your mind will always be the fact that one day when you least expect it,they will pop back into your life. One knows this, deep in your soul,so one can’t really be indifferent,no.

Now, there are few steps in which one can progresses and end the twin flame separation.Some of the tried and tested techniques that can increase the vibrational energy in a twin flame connection are:

1) Be honest with your twin flame about everything that’s going on in your life,including in the separation phase.

2) Improve yourself.You need to be the best you that you can be even if that means stepping out of your comfort zone.

3) Embrace change.Not wanting to change and simply refusing it is the shortest way to permanent separation.

4) Focus on your spiritual side.If you’re not spiritual, then you’ll probably reach enlightenment slower than your counterpart, which is not good.

5) Don’t let your twin flame do everything for you. You need to take care of yourself and do things on your own while still having a close relationship with your twin flame.

6) Strive to understand your counterpart better by finding more effective ways of communicating with each other.

The soul bond is always going to exert pressure on each twin flame to achieve merging frequency, to be in contact, to be in your twin flame’s presence at the very least in spiritual terms if not physically as well. That makes the process of surrender to divine timing and the natural pace of spiritual and emotional growth a difficult one.

So the surrender process is likely to feel frustrating at different points along the way. It’s natural and simply an aspect of this path which you need to process and then let go of. It’s something every twin flame has to deal with, and you’re well equipped to do it. Simply give yourself time and credit.