Twin Flames and the 49 shades of radio silence

In my previous blog article,I have discussed about mirroring between twin souls of insecurities,fears and doing the shadow work that results in the prolonged runner and chaser dynamic between the twin flames.It is not uncommon to have long periods of separation in the 3D between twin flames as the runner and chaser dynamic continues.

There is a fierce bond of unconditional love between two souls that is connected between the two at an emotional and spiritual level that transcends normal level of intimacy. The intense connection causes a "trigger response" in the runner to stay away from the connection. However,one striking aspect that stands out is the feeling of "being home" when they are together. The instant spark,chemistry and love between twin flames is a place of safe haven.

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"Meeting your twin flame is a beautiful curse because you are always haunted by the thoughts of them after the initial encounter and the connection you feel with them does not dissipate or fade rather it keeps growing within you everyday".

I would bring in my first hand experience on the silent treatment that my twin soul has been giving me since a little above 2 years now. He and I have had a tumultuous relationship since more than 4 years now and prior to connecting as a twin soul,we were good friends and have known each other since 6 years. The on and off relationship that we have had since 4 years has been like a wrecking ball. There passion and the potency of the relationship is ferocious to a point, where we have to pull back our energies and concentrate on our 3D paths.The arguments,bickering, push and pull and long periods of silence is something, one is never ready for in a twin flame.

A twin soul connection is not a regular romantic relationship where we are walking out of a RomCom movie moving towards"and they lived happily ever after" ending. In fact,it is quite contrary to the aforementioned statement. It is a culmination of facing your deep seated insecurities and fears and that there is more to a soul than just the aesthetics of the body and the skin. My personal experience included of fighting my fundamental insecurities of not being loved and accepted by another member of different gender due to my physical appearance.I have always have been conscious of my body weight since a child and the predisposition that the society has ingrained in our system, that big bodied people are not worthy of love has had set a belief within me that acceptance of love has everything to do with bodily aesthetics.However,this connection has helped me purge my striking insecurity of not being acceptable and today,I am a fierce warrior ready to butt heads with any challenge that life throws at me.

Now,let me shift the discussion to the burning topic of the "silent treatment" that is given to the mirrored soul in the twin flame connection. When the Divine intervenes into the twin soul connection,there is deafening silence between the twin flame couple.I must say,the silence hurts and how. Personally,my coping mechanism to the bouts of silent treatment is by investing in my daily cores which is my teaching job,socialising with my friends,working out, spending time with family, working on my blog posts.However,I must mention this that before I go to bed every night, my twin soul communicates with me a length before I phase out into slumber. The communication that occurs on the 5D plane between him and me is enrapturing.In spiritual terms,it is known as getting messages downloads and energetic communication that we exchange every night or even at peak hours in the day. The strong telepathy that exists between my twin soul and me is inexplicably intoxicating as the messages exchanged are loving messages ( most of the times!) and argumentative messages (at times!).

I must say twin flame separation is nothing but a torture because the yearning to be together in the 3D plane is exasperating. Also,the blockages on social media,no revert to text messages,(I sent him a text message just this morning that I would wish to speak with him) but, meh! the message was ignored. At the present stage,I still am the chaser and he is the runner. The off air of not broadcasting with my twin flame communication channel is indeed a blessing in disguise.

However,I am slowly reaching to the surrender stage of the connection because acceptance is around the corner that "silence is golden" indeed!

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The non communication between me and him has upgraded me at an intellectual and an emotional level,not to forget to mention, has been incrementally expansive. When I say incrementally expansive,I have had a turnaround in a lot of perspectives in my life. To start off with,I have become a lot more humble and matured in my current relationships. Also,I have noticed not to take things personally on other people's reaction.A major turning point in my personality development is that I have become mentally stronger and know how to create boundaries in my relationships. Earlier,I used to be timid and fearful on people's reactions to my decisions that made it difficult for me to voice out my opinions. Now,I am fearless to stand my ground and maintain firmer boundaries.

Another area in my life that is upgrading is my dietary habits,I have completely cut down on sugar intake,which earlier was my biggest weakness in my diet. There was a time where I could not wrap up a single meal without binging on a sugary product. I have shifted to healthier substitutes such as dates,walnuts, dried figs and black raisins to curb my cravings.Being an ardent fan of social drinking and trying gastronomical cocktails and beer,I have considerably reduced my alcohol intake.Also,I have eliminated cold sugar infused drinks and have started intake of hot beverages specifically,caffeine beverages.

All the above stated shifts happens,when we start vibrating at a higher frequency at a soul level and all the low vibrational components dissipate effortlessly. Low vibrational energies can come in any form right from the types of food,relationships with people,change in jobs, change in residence,change in location that no more serve a higher purpose to the soul,unconsciously do not add on to our life purpose.