The twin flame journey is a lot more than just the yin and yang balance

The fabled quote by Robert Tew,"Everything you go through grows you",is not just a saying but is a whole lifelong learning journey. Not quite often,we discover and stumble upon fated connections that metamorphose and remodel our perceptions and way of living.The image below can describe the concept that I am going to unpack in this blog article the yin yang theory of divine connections.

Let's look at this image for a few seconds.We can view a tree that is above the ground which is the light aspect of viewing things,where the tree is leafy,colorful and blooming through the roots.Linking this to the light aspect,i.e.what meets the eye in a person's personality.Below,in a black silhouette of the tree,we can see the roots, the soil, the seeds which cannot be viewed by the naked eye which is a shadow aspect of not viewing things which are known as the deep-rooted issues of our personality. This what the concept of the Yin-Yang theory and further, branching it out is the Twin flame connection. Everyone by now knows that the Yin-Yang theory is a Chinese philosophy that dates back to the 3rd century B.C. The theory is based on the premise of "all the exist as inseparable and contradictory opposites". Some examples of this theory would be female-male,dark-light,old-young,activity-passivity.

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This is what a twin flame connection is all about, it is a mirror of your soul in another person that carries the same soul vibe and energy. Decoding this further, the connection is seen as extremely triggering because we as humans have strong social conditioning that is set by society. For decades, men are known to be the breadwinners of the family and have been mentally trained that it is not healthy to show emotions and thus the concept of machoism has cropped in. This has created a sense of inflated pride among the counterpart species to suppress emotions and put up a tough exterior. Placing the pieces of the Yin-Yang theory here would require balancing out of the connection between the divine masculine and the divine feminine( which I must state, is one of the most triggering aspects as both the souls need to work through their journeys differently to arrive at the same destination of spiritual growth).

However, on the exterior, the connection seems toxic and extremely intense. My twin flame experience has got me a lot of enlightenment on how this whole dynamic works. Let me discuss a few aspects of our personality traits, I am extrovert, he is an introvert, he is more practical whereas, I am more impulsive, he is calm and cool, I am a nervous wreck. These are the polarities that strikes the balance between the two of us. This makes me want to extend to the concept of the law of polarity. As discussed above, just like how we share polar opposite personalities,the relationship is built on the similar supposition.

Ever since I started gaining awareness of the connection him and I share,I have been illuminated that the intensity of the connection creates a triggering of mixed emotions such as love and hate, attraction and disconnection,push and pull which just boils down to challenge our soul growth and further,transcend our limiting beliefs. Some of my limiting beliefs have been sense of lack and low self esteem. Since the past 4 years, being the chaser has made me realise that I have always disrespected myself throughout the connection as I have suffered from implanted neediness, low self-regard and an inflated sense of pride.

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Yet another aspect of the twin flame connection is that,both the divine masculine and the divine feminine have different soul ages.He is a much younger soul that makes it difficult for him to identify the connection on the 3D plane,however, comparatively,I am the "soulfully mature" counterpart in the connection as the recognition time of the connection was faster for me than him.

Every time I have tried to communicate or reach out to him,he blatantly ignores my text messages as he is chasing material realms and building his finances and career.

We still are in 3D separation,however, seeing beyond the illusion of the earthly reality,we are aligned in the 5D which is known to be the truth of the oneness of the twin flame union.In order to manifest the union, we must release the need of codependency that speeds the manifestation process. At this very moment,I am manifesting my twin flame union by working on releasing my deep-rooted fears and shedding my disbeliefs. I have surrendered the connection and let the Universe take over the natural flow of the union which will authentically manifest in divine timing.