The Twin Flame 3D connection:Get off the hamster wheel of chasing

The aghast feeling of abandonment and core wounding from current and past lives is what aligns twin souls to get into the runner and chaser dynamic. It takes a high level of ascension of souls on the 3D level to come into physical union which takes years of profound self development for each twin soul.

The twin flame runner in on an perpetual quest to avoid union in the third dimensional plane as the runner avoids facing trigger points which are faced in a twin flame journey to heal the core wounds.The runner,in all means,discards the idea of working on his physical,emotional and spiritual development as it takes bouts of internalizing the need to ascend. Our pre-conceived notions that include family dynamics and upbringing,friendship,past hurts from romantic connections to state a few are some of the blockages that creates roadblocks in the union of the twin flames.

The other side of the coin holds the perspective of the chaser in the twin flame journey.The chaser in this stated dynamic is the more spiritually awakened twin. The chaser understands the connection and wants to unite as quickly as possible in the 3D plane. The chaser holds space for the runner and comes to an higher level of conscious understanding that he/she is willing to walk alongside his twin flame regardless of what situation life has to offer. Being the chaser myself,I have understood that I need to stop fixing the pain of the runner and rather I need to hold space with an open heart and offer unconditional love and support to the runner on our journey.

As a chaser,one has to let go of judgement and control of the connection and that is the understanding that is gained overtime.Bringing in my two cents of learning in my twin flame journey.Personally,I have been on this hamster wheel of constantly chasing my divine masculine since the past 4.5 years. It has been nothing less than a journey to hell and back as the feeling of intense grief of not being in union in the 3rd dimension has led me to become the chaser. The constant fear of abandonment and not being enough has been a whole emotional cleansing process for me. Also,a long time coming is the detachment from the need to be in constant union in the 3D plane, which most certainly has been a Catch 22 situation.

What is a Catch 22 situation? It is one where a person cannot seem to find solutions to their problems due to external circumstances.

After 4.5 years,I have come to a realisation and a conclusion to stop chasing him and break the cycle of the runner and chaser duo and focus on my personal growth and expansion. My need to fight for this connection and continuously having the feeling of not being good enough has slowly but surely,been withdrawn from within. The mental exhaustion and sense of emptiness of not been able to unite with the divine masculine has dissipated overtime and I have reached a level of acceptance that the unison happens by raising my own vibrations and respecting the twin flame relationship boundaries.

I have found my inner peace and channeled my energies on self;by working on my areas of interest such as blogging on spirituality and tarot card readings. Just about yesterday,I applied for freelance jobs on spiritual content writing via Linkedin. Currently,I am looking forward to upgrade in this area and spectrum of my life.

Battling my own shortcomings and anxieties about this connection has branched me out to newer areas of development and learning,which I never thought I would be doing. This is what a twin flame connection does,it expands oneself to their highest level of self-actualization.